Well it appears that the public school lunch room isn’t the only thing that First Lady Michelle Obama is terrorizing. According to staffers, her own husband, and a variety of other sources—the first lady is just plain mean.

According to former staffer Reid Cherlin, Michelle’s office is “a miserable place to work.” According to Cherlin, Michelle is more obsessed with discussing fashion that what is happening in the world. Similar comments have come from Scott Goodstein, who worked on the 2008 Obama campaign and told reporters that he got yelled at by Michelle for creating ringtones.

Although those behind the scenes have slowly been coming forward, there have been some public displays that reveal the First

Lady’s colors as well. For instance, in a speech in 2013, Michelle told the audience “One of the things that I don’t do well is [deal with hecklers]. Do you understand me? Listen to me or you can take the mic, but I’m leaving. You all decide. You have one choice.” She’s also been caught on camera rolling her eyes and disrespecting her peers.

And she has a particular distaste for the woman that flock toward Obama claiming, “I want to tell these women, ‘Back off. Get a life.’ It’s just embarrassing.”

What do you think? Is Michelle an embarrassing first lady?